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Charrul Malik On Relationships: People Are Not Willing To Be Patient

Relationships require love, care and most importantly time, says actress Charrul Malik. She adds that people today have no time to build solid relationships.

Relationships require love, care and most importantly time, says actress Charrul Malik. She adds that people today have no time to build solid relationships.

바카라I feel like people nowadays are not willing to be patient; everyone wants shortcuts, and in everything, people have started weighing each other. Nowadays, friendships are formed based on what someone can do for us, and we tend to have expectations like, 바카라What will this person do for me? What purpose does this person serve for me?바카라 If someone is beneficial to us, then we바카라re willing to engage; otherwise, we question why we should even remember or associate with them,바카라 she says.

She adds, 바카라This mindset is not healthy, but I바카라ve realised that it바카라s prevalent in the industry as well. I바카라ve observed many people, even in the news media, who lack patience. Patience often runs out when we have expectations that aren바카라t met, and impatience sets in. The same trend seems to be extending into relationships. We바카라re now trying to build relationships where there바카라s something for us, some benefit. However, when it comes to benefits, they often turn out to be fake. That바카라s when impatience, aggressiveness, doubts, and manipulation come into play. Relationships have become quite complex, and they require time and effort. If we genuinely care about something, I don바카라t think it feels like an effort; those are the relationships that work effortlessly. In life, I believe true relationships require effort and dedication, and they can바카라t thrive without them.바카라

Even friendship needs time and should happen naturally, she says, adding, 바카라I don바카라t believe that you have to do anything special to build relationships. It should happen naturally, and when a connection is formed from the heart, there바카라s no need for extra effort. In mature relationships, where people understand each other, the need for constant effort diminishes. Instead, the focus should be on being true, loyal, and avoiding manipulation or dishonesty. Where efforts are required, it should be about making the other person happy, considering their feelings and expectations."

"I believe that a relationship works best when it바카라s effortless. Effort should only be necessary when it comes to understanding each other, supporting growth, caring for each other바카라s well-being, and genuinely thinking positively about one another. It바카라s not about pretending, hiding, or lying to avoid conflict. A relationship flourishes when there바카라s a strong connection, even if there are fewer conversations. It바카라s about being solid for each other, contributing positively to each other바카라s lives, and always thinking well of one another. Superficial friendships or fake relationships won바카라t lead you anywhere good. If you engage in relationships with such people, you might end up looking foolish and regretful,바카라 she concludes.

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