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Valentine's Day: A Many Splendoured Thing Called Love

What does love mean in 2023? It perhaps depends on who is asked. Love is colour-blind, they say. Yet, seen through a prism, it has many hues.

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What does love mean in 2023? It perhaps depends on who is asked.

To 바카라œGen Z바카라 and the aspirational young, love is a 바카라œsituationship바카라, a convenient renaming of yesteryear바카라™s 바카라˜friends with benefits바카라™. 

To married couples, love is a day of peace in the absence of the other. 

To intercaste couples in safe houses to protect them from caste-based honour killing, love is a battle against the tyranny of history. 

To Hindus, love is hugging cows. Once a nation that hugged trees to save the forest, saving the cow is now the only worthwhile kind of conservation. 

To Bajrang Dal, love is a 바카라˜western import바카라™ that threatens the Indian ethos (of controlling women by beating them into submission instead of treating them as equals)

To the media, love is an ad campaign and a well timed celebrity wedding can work wonders. Cue Kiara-Sidharth

To inter-faith couples, love is a secret or jail time. 

To politicians, love is in the optics of rescue in an unforeseen earthquake 

To the lovelorn millennial, love is an SRK movie

To the rebels without a cause, love is Pathan

To the gurakshak, love is killing in the name of 바카라˜ahimsa바카라™

To social media influencers, love is the seven OTT looks or cake recipes, one for each day of the Valentine바카라™s week, that their followers requested

To the dispossessed and urban homeless, love is an address that once was

To the manic, love is to remember 

To the lonely, love is to forget

Love can surely be a many-splendoured thing. 

They say that love is colour-blind. Yet, seen through a prism, it has many hues. It is emotional, political, and economical and charged with layers of metaphors and similies. It is perhaps no surprise that celebrations of love threaten those in power or those who propagate hate and order. In India, Valentine바카라™s Day, the so-called international 바카라˜day of love바카라™, continues to jog the national imagination with demands for turning the day into "cow hug day" quashed just in time to save the country from total humiliation on Twitter. Millennials and their parents would remember the decades when the Bajrang Dal was out combing the parks of Uttar Pradesh for young couples on February 14 to beat them with sticks and humiliate them for their 바카라œinappropriate바카라 act of love.

Love has also become the site for the assertion of majoritarian, masculine, and jingoistic ideology. In Assam, the state government is leading a crackdown against child marriage but many claim that only Muslims are being targeted under the pretense of action against child marriage. Many Muslim men have been imprisoned in the past year over charges of 바카라˜love jihad바카라™. In the name of 바카라˜love바카라™ for the holy cow, many in India have been serving up myths and fiction as truth and justifying the harming and killing and lynching of those against their philosophy of cow love and non-violence. In patriarchal societies,바카라™ Love바카라™ can be the name given to gender roles and unrealistic expectations from women to prove their worth by serving the man - the object of their love. 

In a country riddled with deep-rooted patriarchy and casteism, love has always been in shackles. But out of the doom appears tales that light up our lives. We have been through apocalyptic times, and we are still in the tunnel. But we hope that love바카라”pure and unshackled바카라”can perhaps bring out the best in humanity. Love is hope. Even in all its shades. Green, blue, grey and disappearing red.

On Valentine's Day, Outlook looks back on its 2022 issue 'All You Need Is Love' on the politics of love and its many shades and the conflicting representations, interpretations, connotations, and implications of love that drive the nation. 

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