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Crossing The Ravana Rekha

Women students clashing with ­authorities in north India signal that while patriarchy hasn바카라™t changed, the ground under its feet is shifting

Crossing The Ravana Rekha
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Post-Protest BHU

  • VC G.C. Tripathi was sent on leave
  • Royana Singh replaces chief ­proctor O.N. Singh, becoming first woman to hold that post
  • Twenty-eight female security guards to be on the university campus; seven ­appointed so far, with male guards on stand-by
  • First all-woman 바카라œsquad바카라 for ­campus monitoring set up
  • A judicial probe will be done into arson during the protest
  • The university바카라™s annual security budget is Rs 14 crore. It has 83 hostels, 22 for women.

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Any talk of the State바카라™s benign paternalism vis-Ă -vis India바카라™s daughters comes up, first of all, against raw reality. A most revealing snapshot of this came recently from the Banaras Hindu University (BHU). Even as the country was moving into annual Durga Puja festivities, to mark a divinised form of woman power, angry girl students hogged television screenspace for days on end with a most unexpected outburst of protests. And rampant sexual harassment was only the starting-point of their complaints.

But then, the BHU is no exception. Not only would the typical university in the northern Indian plains not do anything to help check predatory male behaviour, they put the burden of security back on the girls: they have hostel curfews, strict dress codes, no WiFi (to 바카라˜save바카라™ them from porn). They have to stay indoors on Holi to be safe from wanton boys. And the university administration is emblema­tic of this attitude­바카라”of stifling, all-consuming patriarchal control. Worse, high calibre young women with dreams of a life of intellectual pursuit or an upwardly mobile lifestyle drop out of their chosen courses fearing harrassment and worse.

When Asha Kumari graduated from her university in Haryana with a gold medal, she promised herself she would get a doctorate. Her parents, who never went to college, had toiled to pay for her studies. The first in her family to get a Master바카라™s, Asha had big dreams. She sought for herself a place among India바카라™s top scientists and researchers. Accordingly, in 2009 she applied for a PhD at Kurukshetra University. It was not to be. 바카라œMy professor took me to his campus residence and tried to rape me,바카라 she says. Asha screamed, pushed the man away and rushed out of his home. But for a year afterwards, she could do no research despite being enr­olled for a PhD. The professor incessantly called and sent her messages. He repeatedly told her he had been watching her for long, that he had thought she would be 바카라œvery good in bed바카라. 바카라œI realised the only way I would get my PhD is if I surrender,바카라 she says. This she would not do.

Asha discussed her predicament with other women res­earchers she knew. 바카라œI found there is much exploitation of women students by professors, but nobody dares speak out. Those who don바카라™t submit end up like me,바카라 she says. She yearns for a PhD, but her faith in universities is irretrievably shaken. 바카라œSome universities suit my schedule, such as Meerut바카라™s Chaudhary Charan Singh University. But, from what I hear, women don바카라™t consider it a safe place.바카라

Asha바카라™s is perhaps an extreme case of being victimised by the very source of guidance students and their families place trust in. Even so, the context speaks of a new mob­ility: a greater field of collision between old and new. For, there바카라™s a surge of women joining higher education institutions, even in the Uttar Pradesh-Haryana badlands, where the threshold of tolerance for harassment is notoriously high.

The numbers bear this out. According to the HRD ministry바카라™s 2015-16 survey, UP and Haryana reflect the broader national trend in higher education with more women enrolling for PG courses and their ratio increasing very fast. Overall, at the under-graduate level in UP, there are 3,149,002 males and 2,854,074 female students. At the PG level, the trend reverses: male enrolments were 2,13,038; females, 2,89,187. Even in Haryana, in 2015-16, only 16,776 males enrolled for post-graduate courses, while 35,080 fem­ales did바카라”almost double.

Think of the sociological meaning those figures contain: the new-found independence for young women across mofussil north India, places where once they hardly ventured out alone. Match it with the stats where, in 2015, UP beat all other states in crimes against women (stalking, assault, voyeurism, dowry deaths et al) while Haryana claimed the fifth slot, as a just-released National Crime Records Bureau report reveals. On the ground, this translates into a sort of perpetual gender war. 바카라œIf you are a woman, you can either keep your self-respect or you can study,바카라 says Reena, a 24-year-old MCA student in Gurgaon. While she was in college in Rohtak, Reena saw it up close바카라”taunts, lewd messages, men following her to college or back, men driving past women, with uncouth music (and misogynist lyrics) blaring on their car stereos. 바카라œIf girls want to study they will face harassment. Teachers only ask girls to 바카라˜be careful바카라™ because boys, of course, have no izzat (honour). Only women shoulder that burden,바카라 she says.

Some of them give it back. Two years ago, a video of Reena and her sister 바카라œwent viral바카라. They were seen thrashing a young man, who they say harassed them on a bus. At first the sisters were applauded, promised bravery awards and cash rewards. Then Haryana바카라™s powerful Jats바카라”the community of the man they beat up바카라”orchestrated a backlash. Fake videos purporting to be of the sisters thrashing other men were circula­ted. They were denounced and their rewards revoked. And a Rohtak court dismissed their case without having heard them once. ­(Reena has filed a case afresh.)

바카라œThe dominant thinking in Haryana is against us. After that video, everybody questioned us for raising our voice and hand. Nobody wanted to know what happened on that bus. We bec­ame 바카라˜characterless바카라™바카라”two girls who put up a fight,바카라™바카라 she says.

This is a pattern: harassment followed by victim-shaming. The arrival of fresh batches of women on a campus바카라”from Allahabad to Varanasi, Meerut to Baghpat, Patna to Ballia바카라”invites hordes of ogling men sniffing for opportunities. 바카라œThere is a lot of goonda-gardi in our city,바카라 says Mamta Verma, who studied fashion design in Muzaffarnagar, UP. They were the first batch of a new private university and their coursework included fashion shows that were widely publicised through leaflets and ads. 바카라œSome girls faced problems once their pictures were published바카라Š girls knowledge mein pad gayi바카라”they appeared on the radar of would-be harassers,바카라 she says.

Men would chase them, cat-call or offer 바카라˜friendship바카라™, a euphemism for dating. The women바카라”Mamta included바카라”never argued with the 바카라˜boys바카라™. Nor did they inform their families, due to the ever-present fear of ­being asked to get married instead of ­taking 바카라œrisks바카라. Instead, they would 바카라œstay home for a few days바카라, while the men moved on to other targets.

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Public Stand

Out of the cloister, women students claim public space, something discouraged traditionally

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For long discouraged from public spaces, a university lets women out of the cloister. That바카라™s when they are forced to confront the power bloc of administrators, professors, male colleagues, not to mention young men high on entitlement. The aspirations of women are pitted against prevailing regressive norms: it바카라™s inherently conflictual.

Originally from Baraut in western UP, Megha Tewatia studied economics at Meerut바카라™s Raghunath Girls College바카라”her parents wanted better for her than the rampant absenteeism and harassment of girls by even classmates that characterised college in their home town. But Meerut turned out to be as unpleasant an experience, even though she loved her college. Men would gather outside the campus gates and wait for women to emerge. 바카라œIt바카라™s very common. There바카라™s a police vehicle there, but nobody does anything about the boys.바카라 Yet she바카라™s unw­illing to blame 바카라˜boys바카라™. 바카라œGirls ask boys to meet them outside college. If they didn바카라™t call them, they wouldn바카라™t be there.바카라

Also, in perhaps a classic case of gender stereotyping, the post-graduate economics class in her college is not taught econometrics바카라”because it involves math. 바카라œMeerut girls are said to have math phobia,바카라 she says. Megha, now preparing for competitive exams in Delhi, has started from scratch. 바카라œIn Delhi, people study econometrics in their MA바카라”there is no talk of phobias.바카라

The sexism often rears its head the minute women hit an upward trajectory. Richa Chaudhary, only the second woman to contest in Gorakhpur University바카라™s union elections, bec­ame general secretary last year. After she claimed victory, defeating 19 male candidates, she faced raucous opposition. 바카라œThe SSP warned me to stay home for three-four days,바카라 she says. Advice she did not ignore.

The tyranny of older males바카라”teachers, administrators바카라”follows its own methods. At Dr Ram Manohar Lohia National Law University, Lucknow, women students recently deposed in a sexual harassment charge against a senior university official and charges of moral policing against another. One of them allegedly used his official powers바카라”for example, over attendance, which fetches marks바카라”to threaten a student. Anita, the complainant, says, 바카라œHe has powers to change marks in every subject. When women go to his office, he checks them out top to bottom in a way that makes them uncomfortable.바카라

The official, currently on leave, says attendance, once marked by teachers, can change only by established process. 바카라œThe instant it changes, students get mobile alerts. I installed this transparent system바카라”why would I undo it?바카라 he asks. He claims victimisation by those opposing his pro-transparency drive. But Anita says the official showed her exam results a week before they were officially declared. 바카라œI had low marks in one subject. He threatened me, asking why I had not gone home for winter break. He threatened to call my parents and complain about 바카라˜what all바카라™ I am doing here,바카라 Anita says.

The official says the university does consider students adult, but hurls the allegation that nothing happens here but 바카라œsex and drugs바카라. 바카라œNot one girl can prove I changed their attendance. They also have no proof I stared at anyone inappropriately.바카라 He adds that in March, university authorities found 바카라œ15 alcohol bottles in rooms of 11 hostel girls, 250 cigarette butts, condoms바카라Š.바카라

In short, tyranny deploys more formal levers, but victim-­shaming is the same. In September, 100 women wrote to UP chief minister Yogi Adityanath about this official and another, who they say surreptitiously took pictures of some students. 바카라œAnyone can ask people to stop smoking on a public road,바카라 the official says, implying this is what the students were doing when they were photographed. The students complain of the duo바카라™s overt orthodoxy and moral policing, for 바카라œjudging women for their dress, walk and talk, how they lecture male-female students seen together바카라.

The students also feel a university with Rs 27 lakh budget for facilities, inc­luding CCTV cameras, should ensure women바카라™s on-campus safety at night. The official counters that some lights are turned off by night to keep electricity bills low.  But the real conflict is over women바카라™s freedom to just be. 바카라œWe don바카라™t tell parents about 90 per cent of what happens here,바카라 the official says, denying his threats to call parents infantilises students. 바카라œStudents should understand everything cannot be done in public바카라”my colleague tried to explain this to them. They call it moral policing.바카라

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Naming-Shaming

An 바카라˜anti-Romeo바카라™ squad in action, in a Lucknow street

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Change, a woman professor at BHU says, has to be wrought on the minds of men. 바카라œWe are used to families that discriminate between sons and daughters but this generation demands equality,바카라 she says. The professor talks about visible changes she has noticed. Every class of freshers is still completely segregated, boys seated on one side, girls on the other. By the second semester, they mix a little. In the third, each boy sits next to a girl. 바카라œIt takes them a while to break the ice. Boys, in particular, need special training.바카라

The teacher herself has faced hoots and catcalls from men at the university. The males still don바카라™t get that 바카라œa woman is not just a female body바카라, she says. She hears of sexual exploitation too, but the girls are 바카라œnot ready to open their mouths바카라. During the recent protests, they faced dire threats like 바카라œVemula-­Lankesh bana denge바카라 (we바카라™ll turn you into corpses, like Vemula and Lankesh), which generate more silence.

Tripti, a PhD scholar at BHU, says: 바카라œWhen girls speak of harassment, they say, 바카라˜what happens in a family should stay in the family바카라™.바카라 This ties in with other on-campus behaviour she has noted: students washing teacher바카라™s utensils. Equally shockingly, she has seen Northeast students eat rice with hot water and nothing else. They could not adjust to the vegetarian meals바카라”yet nobody in the university, which invites applicants from the world over, cared to cater to meals for all regions within the country.

Tripti is an outsider to Banaras. Raised in Allahabad, she worked mostly in Delhi. Initially,  she found BHU바카라™s 바카라œfeudal바카라 norms unbearable. She retreated into herself, seething inwardly. During the protests, when she was verbally harassed, even she did not press charges. She told herself: 바카라œI just want to complete my PhD.바카라 Bouts of exhaustion are natural: women are systematically worn down by the system. But it바카라™s the visions of the opposite tende­ncy바카라”the arrant defiance they are putting up in countless contexts바카라”that gives notice to something changing in the heart of India.

(Some names have been changed.)

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