For decades, the vicinity around Bangalore바카라s arterial MG Road was its entertainment lifeline as well. Then, in the 1980s, on these same thoroughfares was born the city바카라s modern reputation as a pub town. It바카라s these very streets where the season바카라s revelry the other week hit a crescendo and then dived into a low note, leaving some stark realities, plenty of debate and much common sense which have all now distilled down to the question: 바카라Why is a woman to blame always?바카라
We probably need to rewind this narrative a bit, back into the early 1970s, perhaps, to a time when there were fewer restauraÂnts and bars on this high street. Old-timers recall that Kwality restaurant on Brigade Road would have a New Year바카라s Eve ball and so would 3 Aces, a short walk round the corner on MG Road (both the establishmÂents are now just memories). Round about midnight, people would stop by to have a look-see, taking in the season바카라s cheer. 바카라I don바카라t remember it as a very big crowd,바카라 recÂounts Mohammed Hassan from behind counter of his steakhouse The Only Place, one of the few iconic restaurants that바카라s still open today. 바카라It never was a craze like this.바카라
As musician Konarak Reddy puts it, lots of people on the street knew each other and they바카라d wish each other. It was largely polite and innocent, as some recall, and things, well, could also get a bit spirited as some others would reminisce. You would see a beer-bottle crashing down, or a minor dust-up in what was predominantly a male crowd on the streets, but none of it caught too much attention those days. In the years since Y2K turned Bangalore aroÂund, however, you바카라d get to see bigger, raucous crowds that many would generally avoid. And, of course, a bit of caning by the police, closer to pack-up time just after midnight.
What then led to those unruly scenes in Bangalore on New Year바카라s eve when these narrow streets were packed with revellers and accÂounts emerged of women being molested, harassed and reduced to tears? Was it a policing problem? 바카라Well, yes and no,바카라 says Kalpana Kannabiran, director of HyderaÂbad think-tank Council for Social DeveloÂpment. 바카라I바카라m actually very shocked because it also is an indication of how low we바카라ve fallen, isn바카라t it, in terms of dignity. Of course, it is a policing issue. For me, it바카라s also a much deeper, ethical issue. Is it safer for women on the streets if we remove men from the streets is not the point.바카라
A week later, the police in Bangalore have registered several FIRs based on newspaper write-ups and social-media posts of women being molested, but say they have not found evidence on CCTV cameras that could be of help in investigations. (A horrific molestation incident caught on camera in another locality was probed and a group of local boys arrested.) Neither are people approaching them with information. 바카라Women don바카라t complain because the first thing is they are not believed,바카라 says Dona Fernandes of Vimochana, one of the women바카라s organisations that have been holding demonstrations and candlelight vigils in the past week. 바카라Disbelief is the first thing that puts off women from complaining. Even now, they are being told molestation didn바카라t happen. If it didn바카라t, why were so many women on TV channels speaking live and telling us what happened?바카라
A January 12 David Guetta concert was called off at the eleventh hour; the Grammy-winning French DJ-songwriter was to begin his four-city India tour from BangaÂlore. The effects of New Year revelry this time seem to be cascading.
There바카라s an unmistakable sense of frustration over repeated incidents of women being harassed on streets from across the country, and why nothing ever changes. 바카라As a woman I can tell you, I바카라m willing to understand there are limitations to what reparations can actually be offered, but you aren바카라t even moving a small step,바카라 says Kannabiran. 바카라I hate it when people say why are women out because I want them to be out and I want them to be safe, right?바카라
Then there바카라s the often-heard argument about a rapidly growing, multicultural urban sprawl coping with change바카라too fast, too soon. Just as you바카라d hear well-meaning advice about venturing into a crowd, whether it바카라s street gathering or a festival procession. 바카라Bangalore has had a problem of very rapid growth, but that is no excuse for hooliganism and ill-treating of women,바카라 says retired bureaucrat Chiranjiv Singh. He was posted in Paris in 1998, and remembers walking through the street celebrations on the night France won the football World Cup. 바카라We walked from one end of Champs Elysees to the other, just taking in the festive atmosphere. Believe me, not once was my personal space violated in that crowd. No one bumped into anyone else. So why is it that when a crowd gathers here, we are unable to behave in a civilised manner?바카라
Part of the answer, as former police officer and writer Vibuti Narain Rai puts it, is that many 바카라Indias바카라 exist together at the same time. 바카라A large section has moved forward and a very large section has been left behind. So, that conflict is always going on,바카라 he says. Women have every right to wear what they want and move freely and the police naturally will have to take the blame for these situations because ultimately it is their job, he says. 바카라You can think of Germany where a similar thing happened and it was obvious바카라a clash of two value systems.바카라
R.K. Raghavan, former CBI director, in a recent comment piece, cited the arguments of Prof David Bayley바카라s paper 바카라Complexities of 21st Century Policing바카라 as being relevant for police in India. 바카라For a variety of reasons, respect for law and the need for civilised behaviour in public have declined in most parts of the world, including the West,바카라 he told Outlook. 바카라This is why police professionalism has had to redesign itself on the basis of a need for rigour and a sterner resÂponse to deviance. In current times, the police have to be necessarily harsh.바카라
But, he also points out, the community expects too much from an under-equipped and under-resourced police. 바카라When they fail바카라which is often바카라the police look for excuses and various alibis. This explains their criticism of women for their alleged lack of care in dress and circumspection,바카라 says Raghavan. 바카라And to take the stance that police alone are responsible for protecting women is preposterous. The police have huge limitations in terms of manpower and equipment and this is why self-policing is of paramount importance.바카라
However, the conversation we need to have, as Kannabiran reckons, is how non-negotiable it is for men to step back and to claim responsibility. 바카라Willy nilly, what happened with the gender sensitisation programmes is that you had extremely well-intentioned people, but nothing on non-negotiability,바카라 she says. 바카라How does this incident in Bangalore diminish the collective dignity of urban men living in Bangalore across ages? Are you even seeing it as a collective issue for which you are responsible, if you don바카라t speak up?바카라